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It’s time to say good-bye to the year
2013- A year that has been so fruitful and gainful to me that I will always
mention it in the timeline of my life whenever I would be telling about it to
my children or grand-children. I, as an individual, always take responsibility of my life but there’s only
certain things in my hands to execute, rest happens the way it wants to. But I
make it sure that whatever is in my control does not see an underwhelming
performance. I am a human being and therefore I even fail incessantly but
that’s what makes life risky and worth living. If God comes tonight and
says,”My Dear Child, Let Me Tell You That 2014 For You Is Going To Be
Throughout Success. Even If You Won’t Write Anything in Exam Papers, You Would
Be Given Highest Marks In The University”, I’ll just sleep down for the next
365 days. Because it would be no fun in enjoying the success that you get
without slogging down and struggling. Therefore, the main reason that
the thing I love the most in my life is my Blog because this is the only thing
for which I have spent many sleepless nights.
There are so many things that I learnt
in 2013 about being a better human being that I feel I am a better person who
is going into a new year. And there can be nothing better than this to
celebrate tonight than anything else. I have learnt how to deal with close
people and how to knock those down who have been just toys in life. Friends are
something that everyone in their life has. If they do not, they actually keep
remembering those days in school when they had that particular boy or girl
sitting beside them on bench which whom he/she shared some beautiful moments of
life. But everyone needs friends. Many people disturb and spoil their
life for friends while many use them as magic wand for success. You
automatically identify the friends who wish betterment for you and others who pray
illness for your life. There would be many who, on your face, would show how
much protective and careful they are for you but actually, they are not. I have got this
learning in quite an easy way this year. Accordingly, I have filtered people in
my life and now I find myself smiling freely without any glitches or hatred for
anyone.
I have learnt a beautiful art from my
mother called HELPING. Even when I am not related to someone and I get a call
or message, I make it sure that I do something for them even if I am not able
to protect them at unearthly hours. This year I made it sure that I help my
juniors with their admission and I cannot represent you the happiness I had as
soon as I got the message that all of them have got their respective colleges
for next 3 years of life. I never do anything for anyone with a small mission of getting help back when I
would need it. I have learnt something called “Self-dependency” attitude and I
live by it. My friends often ask me that how is it that I don’t get stuck in
something and call them for help. "How is it that you don’t need anyone’s
help in this impossible journey called life?" And I reply,”I have the strongest
mother and father with me. They are enough to take me out of any shit in life”.
And after this I even ask all of them to approach their parents when stuck in
some plight. They say that their parents aren't as open minded as mine but when
I insist and they share it with them, they come to me and tell how supportive
their parents have been last night after listening all dirty realities about
their child.
2013 has also shown me what failing
after a long time means. At one point of life when you see only
extra-ordinariness happening with you, you get into habit of tasting only
success. And suddenly when rejection comes to you, you slip earth off your
feet. I saw one such incident in the first quarter of the year which made me believe that no person even with all hard work and utmost dedication can only succeed. Time comes when God tests his patience and for that, he fails the person. I have learnt that whenever I would fail again in life, I will take it as an opportunity to get closer to God because that is what the almighty wants from us. Being near to God is the best that you can do to keep your mind serene, peaceful and happy in the times of failure and calamities. 2013 has taught me lot of things which I am sure can not be described in just a Blog Post. I hope that all of you had a wonderful year.
Thanks.
ABHILASH RUHELA - VEERU!!!
2 CoMMenTs !!! - U CaN aLSo CoMMenT !!!:
I have taken a very unpredictable yet an ambitious decision of my career last week. It was tough and many friends openly criticized it. Called me a fool. But my parents stood by my side. My father is my biggest support. And thats why I am capable of taking my own independent decisions and come out of shit situations easily when compared to some people around me. They don't understand what is that inner feeling inside my heart that gives me so much confidence and self-dependency to face life in tougher times. The whole credit goes to my parents. They are truly enough to take me out of any shit in life. :)
Good that u are not from those who think that parents will kill us if we discuss our problems with them. Do pass this msg among ur friends too
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