Time to Come Home by Damini Grover (Book Review: 4.5*/5) !!!

2111th BLOG POST

16^th Book of 2024

There are many self-help books which tells us about multiple things to fix which ends up being ineffective as we tend to forget most of the pointers. There are rarely any books which focus on one aspect of many things we need to do which can itself help us solve many critical issues we are facing in our life. There’s one such book which happened to be beneficial in this aspect which I have just completed reading – “Time To Come Home” written by Damini Grover. This book published by Hay House India in around 275-pages also has a tagline- “Sowing the Seeds of Self-Love for Lasting Happiness”.

 

As the tagline is self-explanatory, the book talks about the benefits of bringing in the aspect and quality of self-love in our attitude and daily lives to ensure that we give prominence to ourselves before anyone else. Damini just doesn’t pick self-love out of many qualities that we must possess to chase happiness. She starts the book by helping the readers understand why self-love is important and how we end up becoming a confused and lost personality by keeping ourselves last in the last of our priority list always.

 

Damini’s writing skill is such that it made me tough to believe that the book has been executed by an Indian author. She has a writing style which is global that makes it relatable for readers across the world. She has chosen very friendly language to make us delve into the concept and apply it in our lives. She is a counselling psychologist herself but doesn’t complicate things by adding jargons related to several theories and chemical reactions happening within us. She keeps things simple to help readers understand how they can understand the missing patterns in their behaviour and start correcting them gradually to achieve long-lasting happiness.

 

Damini takes the readers through the journey in a manner that it never bores you. She has included many conversations between a psychologist and the person seeking therapy which helps us understand the mindset of the victim and relate with it. We tend to understand how we are also facing issues that one of these communicators are. It helps us concentrate more in these sections where we find things which signifies our own status quo. Similarly, there are many stories/incidents mentioned by the authoress that helps us understand the concepts well.

 

Rather than just providing theoretical insights, Damini also includes written exercises after important chapters that helps us recollect our thoughts and revaluate our approach and provide answers as to how we are going to improve those aspects immediately. These exercises are mind-juggling and helps us get into the groove and apply the actionable. It provides us the clear path to walk upon to achieve the ever-aspiring happiness.

 

There is a section where authoress mentions how even after knowing everything and being certified psychologist, even she falls into this trap now and then but she makes regular habit to get out of it by following the mentioned steps. She helps us understand how we need to treat a lot of personality issues that we have acquired from our childhood and experiences. She throws light on concepts such as reparenting where we need to nurture values again in our core system in a new way to lead a better life. She introduces us with concepts on how we can embrace gratitude and forgiveness, follow affirmations rightly, cultivate the art of authenticity and follow the journey even after achieving the goal.

 

Overall, this is a great book which is enough interesting for you to finish in few sittings yet I would suggest to go slow to grasp the beauty of it. I give this book 4.5* out of 5.

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Aunties of Vasant Kunj by Anuradha Marwah (Book Review: 4*/5) !!!

2110th BLOG POST

15^th Book of 2024

Fiction is my favorite yet somehow; I always get into non-fiction but I regularly miss it even when non-fiction provides me the comfort it does when the days aren’t going well. Luckily, I got my hands upon a wonderful fiction this time named “Aunties of Vasant Kunj” written by Anuradha Marwah. This 300-pages book published by Rupa Publications is author’s 4^th release and her experience is evident in every paragraph. Talking about the cover page first, the way the designer has captured the essence of all the characters in the book by embedding related accessories is a witty work indeed.

 

Author has very nicely crafted the book which is based in a six-months’ time-frame describing the lives of three different female energies where each of them are different from the other two. Keeping Shailaja as the main protagonist, Anuradha ensures that she still gives equal importance to Nilima and Dini. Writing a book on 3 characters where each one of them have their own space is something which has been nicely handled. The way their background is provided through story-telling makes the reader understand and visualize each one of them quite clearly.

 

Anuradha has also based the characters in similar conditions but deriving from different types of situations. At one point, authoress makes it clear to us that all three have been derived out of her own life experiences which makes it even more interesting in terms on how she has broken down her tale in three different parallel stories. I enjoyed reading their individual lives in the beginning and the process in which all three of them meet each other.

 

The arc through which all the characters travel engages us throughout the story and we want to see how they move further. Definitely, most of the turns that comes in the story are predictable and old but yet the narration keeps you hooked. Not only the main characters but authoress tries to keep even the other supporting characters say something important. They are not there just to fill the spot. Either the maid, mother-in-law or daughter – everyone has something particular to say through their conversations with the main characters.

 

Written by a female based on all the female characters gives an impression that the book shall be pro-woke-feminism but thankfully, it is not so. The characters are flawed and even if their ego doesn’t let them believe it, authoress speaks it boldly to the reader. Even when Dini’s character is itself one of women activist’s yet you won’t get uncomfortable reading it because other characters around her makes her realize that this is not how it works in practical life. Sections of the book speaks on the role of father in children life, proper closure in relationship from both the ends, not going ahead with court cases against men just for the sake of it etc. I am glad authoress chose this path rather than making the book impressionable only to the woke generation.

 

We are generally habitual of reading books based on girls who are in their 20s or early 30s but here, we get an insight on how the lifestyle of women in their 40s must be. It is wonderful reading the way they have to deal with relationships, job, divorces, marriage, in-laws, kids, neighborhood, societies, judgment etc. There’s a section where two characters lose their job at the same time and the way the same scenario is treated differently and the different lessons provided with the respective cases is phenomenal. Similarly, the challenges faced by a homemaker is also given deserving prominence in the book.

 

There’s a large part of the book where Buddhism is discussed and even when it consists of humorous sections, Anuradha has ensured that she doesn’t end up disrespecting the religion in any manner. She has handled it with maturity. Similarly, she ensures that if she has mentioned a locale in the title of the book- Vasant Kunj, she makes it informative for the readers to understand how is the life in such areas where people fight for water issues and electricity usage every morning and night. Anuradha has used her wit and sense of humor to make it a funny and engaging read throughout. The only issue I have is with the length of the book. It could have been down by 50 pages easily.

 

Overall, this is an interesting read which you’ll enjoy with smile and laughs in between. I give the book 4 stars out of 5.

 

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A Billion Dreams: Decoding Flipkart’s Growth Story by Varadharaju Janardhanan/M.H. Bala Subrahmanya (Book Review: 4.5*/5) !!!

2109th BLOG POST

14^th Book of 2024

Out of many transformations that my generation has experienced in front of them, the evolution of start-up ecosystem is one of them. And it all began with Flipkart in 2007 when E-commerce industry had just begun in India with lots of excitement and doubt among consumers. Author-duo Varadharaju Janardhanan and M. H. Bala Subrahmanya has tried to explore the whole arc of Flipkart’s development in their book named “A Billion Dreams”. This 150-pages short book also has the tagline called “Decoding Flipkart’s Growth Story”.

 

As the title of the book says, it does full justice to it by going deeper into how Flipkart managed to initiate their ecommerce startup in India where there wasn’t even access to Internet to many in the era of 2G internet. Indians, with the habit of touching and verifying products before purchasing, trusted the new website and accepted it with all the new promises the website was making. The book deeps down into the journey how Flipkart became one of the first unicorns of India in 2012 and with all its great strategies, became decacorn within 2 years itself in 2014.

 

One thing that I like about Rupa Publication is its initiative of telling such inspiring and informative stories through their short books which can be finished within a single sitting. Even being a fast read, the authors doesn’t compromise on the story and helps us understand every aspect of the business. They describe how Flipkart went through the investment spree and got big cheques from biggest investors of the world. Further, how they themselves opened a venture unit for investment in new startups themselves once they got established.

 

Similarly, it’s interesting to read one of the best strategies of Flipkart where they started acquiring businesses or getting into mergers and acquisitions to ensure that they benefit from the achievements of the other firms – either in terms of their talent pool or the logistics/network they must have created which Flipkart won’t have to create from scratch. Their Entrepreneurial culture mindset is regularly mentioned in the book which talks about how they groomed and motivated their employees in briefing new ideas which are out of the box. They either implemented the same in Flipkart or helped a group of employees create a new start-up.

 

One amazing fact about Flipkart remains that they created a work culture in such a manner that many of their employees created their own successful start-ups after leaving Flipkart and in many of these cases, Flipkart themselves turned out to be the initial investor to give them wings. This tells a lot about the leadership mindset the firm and its founders have rather than killing the dreams of their employees by adding clauses.

 

The book discusses very well on several challenges that the firm faced in the first few years and how the company found solution for each of them. It serves as a very big example for all the management folks as well as people interested in opening a start-up of their own. Authors have very intelligently added a section after every chapter called “Add To Kart” which mentions the key take-aways that we need to remember from the chapter. The book has a lot to learn from entrepreneurship aspect. I have never been an aspirant of starting something of my own but the growth story of Flipkart definitely motivated me to think something which I can own and nurture like them.

 

The only concern that I found with the book are few repetitive stories of their growth time and again which becomes boring. I feel that authors should have either gone from timeline perspective or strategy perspective and spoken about all the related events in a single space. But authors have been little confused in that sense and spoken about few elements every now and then which makes you skip few paragraphs.

 

Overall, this is a perfect book for younger children and start-up aspirants. I give this book 4.5 stars out of 5. Definitely recommended!

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