2053rd BLOG POST
8th Book
of 2023
It has been a while
since I have not read many fiction books hence, I thought of picking few of
them before getting back to non-fiction and self-help books. The 2nd
book that I read in a row is Rohini Paranjpe Sathe’s “Being Good Enough”. This 214-pages
book is not just a book but I must say it’s a therapy. Yes! This is one of the
most well-written works I have read recently and I am guilty enough to say that
it was in my shelf for two years and I don’t know why I didn’t pick it up until
now. The story is about a girl named Jyoti who has unintentionally walked on a
path which has broken every rule set up by her parents in the name of
patriarchy and religion. She is been tortured, harassed and suppressed at home
and it results in awkward and horrible actions from others even outside. She
goes through a traumatic experience continuously but she still doesn’t lose her
strength in the process.
The story is very
courageous and there are times when you would want to cry out loud due to the
traumas the protagonist is going through. At times, you want to shout at her
for making decisions she knows will hurt her later. Her dilemmas when she
becomes a mother whether she should share about her past with her son or keep
it hidden makes you feel pit in your stomach. I am a boy but I could still
empathize with her character completely. Rohini’s writing is very solid and
commanding. She knows how to drive her narration to make the reader be with the
story. Throughout while I was reading, I felt that I was transferred to another
world altogether. Every time I kept the book aside, I would find hard to come
back in my own world. I know this sounds exaggerated but that’s the zenith
level of writing caliber I am trying to convey.
Author’s command on
the language is powerful as this is one of the perfect books to understand how
to use great vocabulary and do justice with English grammar. Even the way author
starts the book without disclosing past of Jyoti which initially confuses you a
bit but eventually things start becoming clearer as you are taken into
flashbacks. All of this is executed so seamlessly that even when you are
jumping timelines, you don’t feel getting mixed up or disconnected with another
timeline at all.
Author has used
many philosophical elements while explaining us about her protagonist’s mindset
as well as through the conversations between important characters. There are
many long paragraphs in the book which might make your reading experience
little difficult but when I was thinking where author could have broken the
paragraph to make them shorter, I couldn’t find one reason why it should have
been shorter. There are questions on life, God, religion, patriarchy, cities,
death, spirituality, gender, siblings, same-sex love etc. but none of them
sounds preachy or forced. All of them are part of characters’ situation which
makes it hard for you to disagree with unconventional thoughts that author
wants you to ponder upon.
The story will make
you smile and cry. The whole section and chemistry between Jyoti and Aman is
such a beautiful part in this book that without it, the book would not have
been half as good as it is. The way Jyoti’s father and brother tries to push
her down against her will tells us a lot about how our society is formed where females
are sometimes, tortured in the name of protection. How some men are too horrific
to handle are portrayed through the characters of Rathore and Sameer. Every
time, I would read their name and Sooraj (Jyoti’s brother), I would get so
angry that I could feel short-breathiness even while knowing that I am reading
a fiction story. The role of Jyoti’s mother and mausi are so nicely portrayed
that even though they have very less part to play but they tell you a lot about
our society and women of previous generation. Kudos to author for justifying a
dysfunctional family so perfectly.
The climax of the
book finally gives the satisfaction that I was waiting for. I am glad that I
had a smile at the end rather than another sprint of tears forming in my eyes.
Though, after keeping the book aside, I had tears of happiness. As I said in
the starting paragraph, this is not just a book but a therapy. All of us go
through enough pain in life but when we read a story of this kind, we
understand what real pain is. I could very well relate Jyoti’s character with
that of Sushmita Sen’s in the web series- Aarya. It’s almost the same journey
where a lady goes through a pain again and again after finding a ray of hope
which vanishes immediately after it appears. If you liked that series, this
book is even better. I give this book 4.75* out of 5. Please go for it!
Thanks!
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