12 August 2010 | By: Writing Buddha

Happy Ramzaan To All My Islamic Friends !!!

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Ramzaan Mubarak To Everyone !!!
        I am early today on my blog because I wanted to share this important thing with you all. The Ramzaan of Islamic followers has started from today. The days when all the Muslims worldwide pray to their God, keep fasts, read the whole Quran and live a speckless life. Ramazaan is the ninth month in the Islamic Calendar. This month is important for the Muslims as they believe that their religious book- QURAN's first verses were revealed in this month itself.  The word Ramzaan is derived from the word in Arabic. The main purpose of Ramzaan is to make Islamic followers to keep fasts which indicates that they are concerned for their God and their patience, humility and spirituality. The word Ramzaan in Arabic means the Intense heat. I don't know what's the connection of this word with fasting bt I love this month and I love the dedication of Islam followers who prays their God in much immaculateness as possible. 

             In the month of Ramzaan, the Muslims pray their God and ask forgiveness for past committed sins, pray for guidance and right direction so that they can live their future life in the right and appropriate way. They pray to purify themselves through self-restraints and good deeds. Muslim keeps fasting from Sunrise to Sunset. In these hours of fasting, the followers can't have any sexual interaction, can't eat anything(by chance if they eat, they can spit it out) and can't even drink. They can't use fowl languages and can't be violent with someone. This 9 months prove all the followers that how much are they dedicated to their God and religion. I have never heard from a single Muslim of my friends that Ramzaan is annoying and amusing them. The Muslims can't even drink while their fasting hours. Its an immense dedication and patience. I love this part of Muslims.

           I remember the days when I was living in hostel in 2006 during the month of Ramzaan with all the Muslims. They used to go for namaaz 5 times a day. They used to greet everyone numerous times in a day - Salaam Walaikum after reading their namaaz. I also remember how I went with them in a Masjid and sat there to wait for the time when the Masjid will indicate the sunset and the break of fast. As soon as we heard the voice,we used to recite the words - BISMILLAH and start eating. It was so religious and so true that it made me feel calm that day. There are many women who are pregnant, suffering with menstrual periods and are sick, they are allowed to skip the Rozas as they are not in the condition to do the same. The small children are also allowed to leave it as they are young enough to understand what Islam and Rozas is. 

             The Ramzaan starts according to the movement of moon and ends with the same. The day when it ends is known as Eid. The biggest festival of Islam and Muslims. I want to wish every Muslim a very hearty Ramzaan. Hope all of you will be successful in maintaining all the rules and regulations of Rozas and Ramzaan. Hope all of you will pass the test by Allah. I would like to wish all my Islamic friends a very Happy Ramzaan. Specially, Yusuf, Shoaeb, Yasir, Vasim, Zaheer, Mohsin, Rehan, Rameez, Nasser, Sohail, Saquib, Danish, Umera, Rabea, Fahad, Salman, Nowman, Nihal, Abrar and many more whom I can't remember right now. I am wishing you all the happiness in this month of Ramzaan. I also want to request all of you to remember me in your Duaas and also request Allah to bless all of us with peace and keep some people brains so that they stop the violence they are creating. Hope you will pray this on my behalf.

            I want to apologize all the Islamic followers and Muslims in this world if I have given some wrong information about Ramzaan and Islam. 

       Thanks.

ABHILASH RUHELA - VEERU   
11 August 2010 | By: Writing Buddha

I hosted Orientation Program (No, Not Really) !!!

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        So, I played the role of an anchor for the first time in my life. I had Prema as my partner who ruined the job of anchor after the lunch session. She distributed all our scripts among everyone. I apologized my pained feelings to forgive me as I recommended her as my partner. I have decided never to host any college program hence forward. The interruptions, the break of heart, the clashing of egos, the non germane distribution of sentences etc. etc. etc ruins your mind and thus makes you behave unkindly and harshly. I loved speaking in mike. I loved being confident on the stage and I loved watching juniors stare me while I was sharing my words with them about our chief guests. The job of anchor is interesting and so bizarre that no one would like to stop anchoring but for that you need the support of your partner. I didn't got it and when I complaint the same to her she said that I am behaving as a child. Whatever, I don't feel its my mistake but I do feel that there may be some selfish approach from my side too that I didn't wanted others to participate in the job of anchoring. Even, it was my first chance, I wanted to utilize it fully. So, I didn't wanted anybody else to interfere while I was performing and handling the mic but I selected them and they sued me only. :-(

              There were 3 speeches and I loved them. Mostly, the second one where one of our guests said us to draw any diagram on the paper and come on the stage and describe how have we related ourselves with the diagram and speak out. I, as usually, drew Pen and made everyone familiar with my passion of writing. Madam wished me luck for my future as a writer. Thank you mam. But, a boy who won everybody's heart was a junior from BCA course. I don't remember his name and not even his diagram but I do remember his description as he got the most number of claps and he got the optimum plaudit. He said that he wants to speak English but he can't as his grammar is not nice and his vocabulary is very weak. He said that whenever he sees everybody speaking in English he feels to speak in the same fluency but because he lacks he can just dream to speak English. He divulged and unbosomed this in front of everyone that he is weak in English. Everyone was moved to hear someone speaking of his weakness in front of all the new batch mates, all the new girls, all the seniors and teachers. It needs and stipulates a lot of courage to speak out your weakness infront of everyone. I can't do this anytime in my life and thus, I am very much impressed by this boy. He is great and one day, I am sure he is going to be the best English speaker amongst all his friends and people near in his vicinity. Good Luck, Champ !!!

             There is a junior boy who stammers. He has gained everybody's sympathy. Today, when madam said him to come on the front and speak about what his diagram is and what his dreams are. He came in confidence and said that he wants to be a CEO and he wants to manage a company and make his employees feel better and happy. I was choked to hear him. How can someone be so encouraging. People may feel that the child is abnormal but the real word for such human beings is "Special". This boy is special. He don't want the group of people around him who show solidarity towards him. He knows that everyone is not up to mark and everyone is not pertinent. Everyone is lacking. It was skeptical for me to witness such type of confidence and dreaming attitude. I bow to this guy. I want to tell him that even I stammer and I am totla also. I can't speak properly. After speaking 2 to 3 sentences, I start dithering and thus my voice gets mortified infront of everyone. I feel shy when someone asks me to repeat my sentence. It clearly shows that there is no immaculateness in my voice but I speak confidently because I don't want to let people know that I have problem with my voice. As I have been spurious and faked as a good speaker, I caught this job of anchor. So, my dear friend, if you want to hide this and prepare your voice, start reading newspaper in loud voice. I am sure you will start speaking better than how you speak today. I have witnessed the change and thus passing the method to you.

            Thanks.

ABHILASH RUHELA - VEERU   

My friend - Rohit's 21st Birthday !!!

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Rohit 
        I had my orientation program's first day today. It was a delightful experience to hear good speeches by some of our guests. Tomorrow, we will be having our 2nd and last day of the Orientation which will go from 10 in the morning to 5 in the evening. At least, these informative lectures are better than the lectures we sit in the class. Not every lecture in our class is so boring but still some of them sucks all the patience the brain has. I am little upset because of the miss of lectures I have to do to attend and help teachers for orientation program. I am not attending any lectures from Monday and I am not going to attend them even tomorrow. I am the host for tomorrow's orientation program. I am hoping a wonderful hosting from my side. Prema is my partner. Hope both of us do a nice and attractive job. I am a bit nervous but much confident of myself. Only problem is my throat infection which is not letting me throw my voice with all the power. Hope, God will treat it till tomorrow before 10 i.e. before the beginning of orientation program. Friends and Readers, this is my first experience as a host so I would like all of you to bless me with all the luck and wishes.

             I am suffering with throat infection as I have already shared it with you but still I am on blog and writing it with dedication because of a reason. My body is not allowing me to write as I am also suffering with shoulder and back pain. How much am I suffering but still I am present here. Its my childhood friend - Rohit 's birthday. He has turned 21 years old now. Wow. Its so delightful to witness that we were so small few years ago and today we have landed in our 20's and we don't even realize the movement of time. How fast the time has past. How fast have we grown up. How fast have we got busy in our lives. How fast have we started minding our responsibilities. Its so good to see our grown-up friends being responsible and careful. Rohit is the first friend of my life as far as I can remember. He was also my best friend and he still is. He is just a miscall away whenever I need him. Rohit has always kept trust on me and vice-versa. Thus, this is the main reason why both of us are still together. 

            I remember the time when Rohit was suffering with depression and losing attitude. He failed and the world raised fingers on him. He went into depression and he failed 12th again. Now, no one said anything about him as he already indicated everybody in the colony that you just speak about me and my failure and I'll bang you. When everyone thought that Rohit is a psycho and a gone-case, he returned back and passed the 12th std in the 3rd attempt. I am so proud of him. While he was suffering with hard years of his life, parallel, I was also suffering with such depression and failure in my life. I failed 11th std twice while he failed his 12th std twice. We both needed sometime to recover and thus we both were not in contact in these 2 years but as soon as both of us made everyone's perceptions and predictions wrong, we came in touch again and we rocked our friendship days again. He got his admission in BBA in Pune university while I got admission in BCA in Bharati Vidyapeeth University. He has cleared his first year with 60% marks while I have cleared it with 61.43%. In short, both of us had played the similar game with the life and today we are standing on our legs and we fought with the life when nobody supported us and nobody believed us.

            Today, on his 21st birthday, I wanted to be with Rohit but this busy schedule of my college made it impossible. I want to wish Rohit with all the success he had desired for. May he get the higher degrees in his academic years. May he get the best organization to work with. May he get a good wife too so that even I'll enjoy thoda bahut. Sorry Rohit. ;-) I am trying to call him from last 1 hour but every call is in vain as his mobile is currently switched off according to that sexy voiced women who always talk to me when my friends don't want to talk to me. So, Rohit, Many many happy returns of the day. May you live a long and happy life. I am always with you. HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU !!!

 Thanks.

ABHILASH RUHELA - VEERU