Advantages and Disadvantages of Updating Status !!!

            171TH BLOG -->>

               Exams are on..And my masti is at its highest level..Nothing can stop me to do masti and nothing can start me to study for exams..As soon as I enter the exam hall for writing the paper , all my classmates and my friends from BBA 1st year starts requesting me to get up in 5 minutes and move out of the class giving a direct challenge to the university..Actually no university keeps this type of childish acitivities for students..We are in college..We want to celebrate fest..show our talents..You all dont allow us to do that..but you all want us to write this useless exams..which is of no use..you never check..you never read what we write..You just throw away that papers in a corner of the college campus..Right now, when we should be studying for the university's final exams..We are writing your preliminary papers..Is this the way you manage things? I don't have words for the ideas you all possess and implement on us..Please leave us..Please save us from your goons..Let us leave our life the way we want..and please stop giving us DHAMKI at our every anti-behaviour that our hall-ticket will be blocked..Try to augment your procedure..and then come upon us...Till then..Live your life at your fullest and let us enjoy ours...

             Now-a-days Social networking sites's popularity is at the highest..The way every age group people are using it is commendable..Networking sites have changed the life of the people..No one can feel lonely now..Whenever you want to talk something..Share something..Come log in...Update your status and with that one sentence..Talk with everyone in your friend-list...Wow..A good way to interact with everyone in your contacts..Everyone wants to be in contact with each other but the busy life and the busy schedules has grown the distance of relationship of people and friends..These sites helps us be in contact..Earlier when people were aparted, the leaders like Lokmanya Tilak introduced festivals like Ganesh Chaturthi so that people will unite together and share their lifes and talks with each other leaving their busy life..Now, this Social networking sites and surfing internet is the Holi,Diwali, Ganpati, ID and Christmas of the youth..There was a time when no one knew what GPRS was..and today everyone has it in their mobile phones at just Rs.5 per day or 98 rs per month...This reflects the personality..The way you use your internet..The way you introduce and publicize yourself on this site..Shows what really your mind has..Good or Bad..Decency or Rivalry..And Yes..I have judged out many personalities of my friends throug hthese websites..

             The STATUS UPDATES of the friends actually shows what they really are..What they really think like..Dont consider the Status which they have copied from somewhere else..Concentrate on the Updates they write it personally in their words...That is the real human being which comes out...But this Social networking sites sabotages our valuable time..The whole day is passed on the net reading everybody's updates..commenting on them..reading the tweets..writing yours..uploading pics..watching your friends playing guitar on youtube..This leads to nothing..You grow closer to your friends..Now this is a different thing..but where is your time gone? The time which you would have used in developing yourself..learning something useful...is spent in knowing your friends..While the exams are on..People are busy updating status that Exams are on..Im busy..Tension moving around..Rather than doing this..Can't we write our paper first and then the day exam is over..Log in to our favourite websites..and upload 100 Updates shouting that this is the best exam I have ever given in my life..Think..Think on this and try reducing your online time on this social networkings like-Facebook, Twitter and Orkut...

Thanks...

ABHILASH RUHELA - VEERU

Follow Successful Personalities Like Sachin !!!

            170TH BLOG -->>

           Watched the match of Mumbai Indians vs Chennai Super Kings..I was watching the math with the confidence that Mumbai Indians are again going to win the match and shut up everyone but as the match turned its facet , everything changed..Nothing was on the right path..Chennai Super Kings batted first and scored 165..Then Mumbai came on the strike and Sachin Tendulkar returned back because of his unhealthy circumstances..He left teh team at the stage when Mumbai wasn't bad..They weren't leading but they were on teh right track but as soon as Sachin left the field being retired..All the players were blown off by the great bowlers of Chennai in a seconds..Atlast Sachin arrived back and I had a hope again that he will do something which is always expected by him because he is efficacious but the way he too trembled down at 45 runs was the biggest disaster for the fan like me...Mumbai Indians now have won 7 matches of all the 9 matches they have played..Standing at the first position..Sachin standing at the first position for the highest number of fours beaten by someone...But Sachin has hit only one SIX in this whole tournament of IPL..Sachin is also standing at the second position in the leading run scorers..He is little behind from Jacques Kallis..When the team lost the match, I waited for the presentation ceremony..I wanted to hear Sachin speak after losing this match after a series of win incessantly one after another..

               Sachin came and said that it was necessary for us to lose now to get more charged and warmed up..because we were winning continuously and if this bad luck would have been landed upon us somewhere at semi-finals..we will be hurled out of the tournament..So its better that we lost now..Now we will be alert and motivated for the next matches..He had a smile on his face..No regret of losing the match..because the great god of cricket knows that One lost match can never blow up the sense of cricket in him..He know that 1 failure will grow him more as a cricketer and learner..Its so knowledgeable and interesting to hear the words of this successful and great people of their fields..They have a huge experience and a deep knowledge about the success and failure and so they always give a good and fair advise..because they have no jealousy and fear that other can break their record or move upper than them by the advise they have given to them..After reaching at that stage , they love the person who break their record..They come to know the level of maturity other possess..When Sachin spoke that I'm an Indian first and then a Maharashtrian..He taught all of us that live for your country first and then for your home..Amitabh Bachchan always say that Agar mann ka ho to atcha aur agar mann ka na ho to aur bhi atcha..This sentence has a great meaning..And thus following this particular articulate, Big B has reached at this level where everyone stands up when he enters..Everyone treat him as a God..When A.R.Rehman won the Oscars, he said in an interview, After dedicating so much in the music field, I have won now after so many years..You can yourself analyze how much time it takes to achieve the goal of yours...Now just concentrate on the wordings...This teaches us that keep walking on the road towards your goal and motive rather than losing patience and hope..Atlast you will surely gain the impossibility..

               Everyone is born a child..Don't take the factor of a family he is born in..Rich or Poor..Child comes with no wealth..no aim..But as he grows..He finds what he is good at..and finally achieve the same..But what are you doing? Listening music in your earphone gives nothing..Think that are you going to be Music directors? Watching movies gives you nothing..Think that are you going to be director? Playing cricket and wasting time in it is very easy but think that is your future a Cricketer? If the answer is NO to every question than why are you wasting your time in this activities..Find out your potential, your strength, your momentum..and then start wasting your time on it..Life is very short to do small things...So try doing something big..something which really values something on this world rather than doing something which has no profit outputs except the waste of your energy , mind and time..Think once again..choose your destiny...and keep following these great people...

Thanks..

ABHILASH RUHELA - VEERU

My Approach Towards Exam and Studies !!!

        169TH BLOG -->>

            Today after giving my first prelims exams, I felt like kicking myself..Why do I go to college? Better question than this..What do I do in the college? I have attended a lot of lectures..I'm not from them who bunk the lectures more often..and then too after showing so much dedication towards lectures and teachers and studies..I was unable to handle even a single question in the paper..That is the different issue that many of my classmates were genius like me but Why am I so sick? Why am I not concerned towards the studies? In 3 Idiots, Aamir Khan does well in the exam because engineering was his passion..Even BCA is my passion that is why I joined this course...But my passion isn't showing good results..When I entered the college..I studied a lot because there was a will to perform..A will to conquer BCA...but as the days passed..My dedication and approach towards the studies declined and tilted vertically..Very bad..I must say worst..I'm ashamed of myself..And now I'm happy that in aggression I didn't took admission in Engineering otherwise I would have been beaten up by the studies and the courses..I'm unable to learn the definitions..What would I have done if there were many numerical problems in physics..Chemical equations in Chemistry and Long long theorems in Maths..Thank God for giving me brain and keeping engineering far away from me..

               In the first semester , I scored 65.56%..This was somewhat my target for the session..I wanted to score more than 60%..I also ranked 3rd in the class..Now this wasn't my target..It was like I was studying for myself..and I landed at this good score without any actual targets of scoring this..And this time too...I have the same target of scoring more than 60%..And If I score this and I find that every student of my class had scored more than me..I'll not feel bad even zara sa because my target isn't to compete with any crap of my class..My target is to compete with my set goals and targets..because tomorrow when I'll go for an interview( I'm not talking about Campus Interview), I'll not be asked what ranking did you held in your class..or I'll not be asked why were you behind than Vandana? Why were you unable to defeat Arya? I will be judged according to my potentials and knowledge..I'll be compared with the guys sitting out there for the interview..So I need to study in such a way that I should know how to handle computers and programs..I should know what exactly computers are..And suppose, I don't know all this but my fortune played and I'm top scorer in my class in all the 6 sems...Whre will I land to? Nowhere..Because they want knowledge and work from me and not my success..The organizations have nothing to do with my success and achievements and dreams..They just want to augment and improvize themselves..

             I'm never tensed when I see someone in my class studying and performing well..I never take pressures..I take pressures from my left portions and the days remaining for the exam..I love myself more than anyone else..So I take care of mine rather than taking care and comparing myself with other students of my class..I believe that if a child is scoring 1st rank and is not interactive in the class..He is quiet , shy and speak less..and then there is another child who scored 10th rank in the class but is interactive, helpful , interesting, knowledgeable and lovable by everyone-even by teachers..then the child scoring 10th rank is better than the one scoring 1st...So be like this..Behave like when you are absent everyone miss you..Your classmates and even your teachers..Be the environment changer of your classroom rather than the rank-builder of your classroom..So I'm happy with my low rank in the future...The day I had my presentation..My primary and 1st target was to make students savvy of the topic Im presenting and explaining them and then my secondary target was to score best marks..Ultimately , I received 10 on 10 but if even a single student will say that I didn't understood your topic even after your presentation, I'll feel myself as a loser and good-for-nothing..This is my attitude towards working and studying..Yours may differ ...but then this is ARB..So everything is about me and my views...

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ABHILASH RUHELA - VEERU