INDIA WAKE UP BEFORE ANOTHER DELHI CASE TAKES PLACE by Priyanka Dube!!!

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             Everyone in this nation knows about Delhi Rape Case. I have already written about it in 3 posts of mine and I would be writing more as I just can't stop thinking about the whole scenario that took place. Because tomorrow it can happen again. I own blog and hence I have a space where I can speak up with all of you about such issues. Last time, when my cousin sister spoke over my blog about an issue- it was about Guwahati Molestation case. This time, she wanted to speak over Delhi Rape Case and she is with her anger and fury, once again to talk to us. Let's hear what she has to say. I asked her to keep it little calmer as it's not easy to speak about such issues in public where Government is involved but yet, she dared and I, as a brother, allowed her to find her own zone. 

FOREWORD BY PRIYANKA DUBE:

               Bhai published my write-up last time during Guwahati's case and I received some valuable comments. :-) Thank you, readers, for the positive response and there are no words to explain my gratitude towards you, Bhai. As usual, Bhai, you are again responsible for this article and for every article I may write in the near future. So, I am here, once again, to do my bit for our nation with another article which may at least wake up one citizen of our country.

INDIA WAKE UP BEFORE ANOTHER DELHI CASE TAKES PLACE:-

         The world watched it today. The people of India saw his condition today. The torture inflicted on his mind was evident today. He is the one who dared to fight at least till his conscious mind allowed him to. He saw his friend’s life shatter to pieces within hours. He’s the HERO of today’s youth. His conscience is justified today. But is the conscience of ‘We the People of India’s’ justified today?

           Humanity is shattered today. Though the system is responsible but are WE not equally RESPONSIBLE? Where were we when the 2 poor people needed humans to help them out at the most tortured point of their life? We would say this happened in Delhi, the citizens should have helped them out. But is it just about Delhi citizens? NO. It is about US. Let us for just once have a replay of our own existence. Somewhere we will realize that we have overseen or tried to act indifferent to some cruelty that took place right in front of our eyes. It’s not just about the rape victims. It is about how basic humanity has been slowly shattered and forgotten. It is we who change the channel when something disturbing is being displayed because we cannot digest it. We simply change the channel commenting how our dear country is going down the drains. Is that enough? 

         When during the general elections we do not go and cast our votes (which apparently is our basic right and duty as a citizen of India) then how exactly can we blame someone else for misusing or manhandling us? The system is no doubt corrupt but what have we done from our individual side to make it work better? And even if we have done something is it enough according to us?  Some of us would say but we did cast our votes BUT did we try and encourage the mind of the ones whom we knew who did not want to exercise their basic right and foremost duty? We would say we are busy but don’t you think that even if each one of us could change the mind of a single person the world would be better place to live and breathe? The whole system is floored but we have allowed its gradual degradation.

          The hero of our country asked whether ‘Candle March’ was enough to solve the problems of country. We know the answer is NO. Though they are important but we at the very grass root level need to change. We need to start behaving HUMANS or ‘INSAAN’ once again. ‘INSAANIYAT’ NEEDS TO WAKE UP AGAIN. Basic things like casting votes, behaving humans with other humans, respecting our elders, helping a person is distraught are OUR BASIC DUTY AS HUMANS. Though these things are small but isn’t the saying famous that ‘TAKE CARE OF THE SMALL THINGS AND THE BIGGER ONES WILL FALL INTO PLACE’. It’s high time that we change from being ‘I’ to being ‘WE’. 

           As TEACHERS we can teach our students humanity at the very tender age that will stay with them till their death and who also happen to be the future of our country. As TEENAGERS we can for once hold discussions about HUMANITY and not just our careers, as citizens our role in our very own country and not just our favorite games, etc. As heads of different teaching institutions impart HUMANITY by holding debates and not just talking about marks. From US being mere ‘SPECTATORS’ to ’ACTIVE PARTICIPATORS’. From not just taking part in candle marches and thinking our role is over but to keeping the light of the candles burning in our heart and soul and not forgetting our cause. 

NO ONE of US WANTS ANOTHER DAMINI IN OUR COUNTRY. WE THE PEOPLE OF OUR COUNTRY WILL HAVE TO MAKE OUR COUNTRY A PLACE AGAIN FIT FOR OUR SISTERS, MOTHERS, OUR FELLOW CITIZENS & BECOME ONCE AGAIN PROUD INDIANS. WE WILL HAVE TO CHANGE BECAUSE IT IS OUR COUNTRY. 

Thanks

Priyanka Dube !!!

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Celebrate the Year... Not the First Day of it.. :-)

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             So, we meet for the first time in the New Year- 2013. Leaving all that we had in 2012 behind. The relationship that bloomed in the last year is finally at its height now. No need to remain in the past. The one who remains in the past is a stale body and soul. The one who is in present is the one with whom the life is to be celebrated with. Hence, I want all of you to finally leave last year and step up into this new one in the same way as you change the calendar of your house with the provenance of a year. And with it, change your habits. Even if now you will keep on giving excuses, it's better to leave your life and transfer your soul into a new body which shall respect it more than you do. So better change yourself now. It's high time that the excuses have been the main focus and lead of our life. Let's trash them with 2012. From here, we have 365 days to change ourselves into someone that we would be proud of for our whole life. Change only happens when we push ourselves towards new environment. Let's leave our comfort zone. In this New Year, work harder to achieve what you want in life, be with your parents and family, respect them, follow them, but only till you feel their decisions aren't meddling in your journey towards your Dream. At least, first have a dream. And not just one dream but many. Then, you will have a dashing routine that will give you as much pleasure as possible. Stop wasting your time in bloody love and sex wala relationship. Life is bigger than all these. Our parents had no relationships, they got married by their parents' choice. And see how happy they are with us today. Leave this job of searching a partner for yourself for your parents. You focus on your life now. Later, don't regret when you won't have enough in life to have what you need. With this pravachan, I would like to wish all of you a Very Happy New Year. 

             When we know what good habits in life are, why not have them as our own habits? Why to keep clapping for someone who has those habits? Let's push ourselves towards these habits and passion. Why not live for ourselves now? Why not laugh for our happiness? Why not cry for our own self? Why to let others affect our life? Why not make it independent of anyone else's authority? No one can make me smile or cry today until and unless I don't want to emote these expressions. I am independent. Yes, we are social animal and we need socializing. But only up to a limit. With New Year, comes Resolution. In a recent survey, they found that India is 2nd ranked in the countries those who believe in keeping New Year Resolution. I am one of them. But, I just don't keep the resolution. I spend each and every minute of my life to make my current year the best year of my life. And I have been successful since 2009. First, I would like to force all of you to make a Personal Diary. And then, list all that you want to achieve this year. Then, write all that you want to achieve according to the months. And if possible, also segment tasks according to weeks. At least, for upcoming 10 weeks. I will share some of my Resolutions of 2013 with all of you here. No, this is not about revealing myself but this is about telling everyone about my resolution so that if I am not doing it, certain nudges and reminders would help me to get back to my routine to get all these accomplished. :-) The certain Resolutions of this year are:

Resolution 1:- I need to score more marks in my 2nd Semester of MCA than what I would be scoring in 1st Semester. (I am already done giving my Semester 1 examination so no say about it)

Resolution 2:- I have started earning, part timely. Last year, I earned a good decent amount. I just need to earn double of what I earned last year and save triple of what I saved last year. :-)

Resolution 3:- I started reading Bhagwad Geeta last year. I shall complete it successfully this year and then start reading it again. With it, I shall also start reading Bible. (I already know a lot about Islam so I am going for Bible first. Quran will be 2014's target)

Resolution 4:- Due to lack of sleep in life, I have some serious short term memory problem. I can't remember some recent moments. Hence, I don't know whether I will be able to sleep for 5 hours daily but I am definitely starting Yoga and Meditation so that I can revive my body and soul. 

Resolution 5:- This is 760th Blog Post. I will try to write 240 more and touch the milestone of 1000 BLOG POSTS by the end of this year. Fingers crossed.

Resolution 6:- I read 75 books last year. I will definitely try to read more than 75 books this year. 

Resolution 7:- It's high time since I am pissing off everyone about my dream of writing a novel. I will definitely complete writing my manuscript this year. Let it get published next year but I will try to complete my job at least. 

Resolution 8:- Last year has been good with my relationships. I have been a good and helpful friend to many. I will try to bring some good changes in lives of at least 10 people. 

Resolution 9:- The worst trait of my personality has been "Abusive language". I have already controlled it a lot last year and I have eliminated it by 95%. I will definitely be someone who will have a pure and clean language by March-April. Yes!!! :-) Aur agar thodi bahut uske baad degi bhi di toh kya hua, jawaan ladka hu yaar. :-)

Resolution 10:- I will reply to all the comments and appreciations and criticisms that all of you'll mail and submit to me. Last year I had been little irresponsible to this but this year, a strict NO.

           So, finally, these are those Resolutions that I want all of you to know so that by the end of the year, if I am unable to complete them, you can laugh at me so that I will feel ashamed of my laziness and procrastination. Others would be noted down in my Personal Diary. Some stuffs should be left for that dear one too. Right? :-) I would love to hear from you your resolutions. Please have many of them. It will give your year a path and way. You will have a focus and a life to live. A life without goal is a life full of gol-gappa. Ok Sorry. No, I don't have such sense of humour but I purposely did it to wake you all from this boring post. :-) And yes, if you smoke, drink or visit prostitutes, make your first resolution to boycott these bad habits. It's very shameful. 

            A very Happy New Year to all of you and your families. Celebrate the Year. Not The First Day of It. Yo!

 Thanks.

 ABHILASH RUHELA - VEERU